This goes out to everyone in a committed loving relationship. Feel free to copy, paste and share. Sharing is caring, I love sharing with all of you! Spread love, kindness and positivity always!!
I wanted to share this post that I saw on a friends page and it spoke to me in many ways. In life we all will face challenges that will be hard to bear, but it’s those challenges that will teach us valuable lessons, strengthen our relationship, ourselves and the bond we share. No relationship is ever perfect, but that’s what makes every relationship unique and beautiful. Be good to one another always, love wholeheartedly, communicate with one another always, and keep that connection and love alive. Never let anger or hate cloud your judgement and never let outsiders come in between what you and your partner share. Remember what’s important and keep remembering that always.
Lifelong commitment is not what everyone thinks it is. It’s not waking up every morning looking your best. It’s not cuddling in bed with Victoria secret’s lingerie, and peacefully falling asleep.
It’s someone who steals all the covers. It’s sometimes disagreeing, and the silent treatment until your hearts heal. Then…forgiveness!
It’s coming home to the same person everyday that you know loves and cares about you, in spite of and because of who you are. It’s laughing about the one time you accidentally did something stupid. It’s about dirty laundry and unmade beds without finger pointing. It’s about helping each other with the hard work of life. It’s about swallowing the nagging words instead of saying them out loud.
It’s when you have an emotional breakdown, and your love lays with you and holds you and tells you everything is going to be okay, and you believe them. It’s when “ID and chill” literally means you watch ID and hang out. It’s about still loving someone even though sometimes they make you absolutely insane and hurt your feelings. Who loves you for who you are, with or without make up, happy or grumpy, young or old.
Living with the person you love is not perfect, and sometimes it’s hard, but it’s amazing and comforting and one of the best things you’ll ever experience.
Relationships are never easy, but they are worth it. We all will have our fair share of ups and downs and experience many challenges but together we can work through the tough times and make it through anything. At times its hard to hold our tongues when we are upset, but we must learn to. We also must learn to practice healthy communication, love one another always. Never let a disagreement or fight get so big, you find yourself regretting everything you said because you were angry in the moment. We all have fallen victim to this, myself included. I’m continuing to learn patience and appreciation. As many of us are each and everyday of our lives. Love and life is all a learning experience and that’s how we continue to grow and how the bond we share with our spouse and significant others grow stronger. Love is truly a beautiful thing, never take it for granted, learn to forgive quickly and never let anything or anyone come between what you and your partner share. Always remember your why, and continue to love one another. Keep growing, keeping loving one another, keep learning and keep your bond strong always. Much love and blessings to you all!
As always, thanks for reading, following along and supporting the journey!